How to rock your Engagement Session!
A relaxing wardrobe guide for engaged couples wanting unique relationship reflected in their portraits.
Engagement portraits are far more than just beautiful photos; they capture a deeply meaningful chapter in life and carry immense sentimental value. These portraits are a testament to love and commitment, marking the start of a new journey together.
As a photographer, I've had the honor of capturing various life moments through my lens, and engagement sessions hold a unique place in my heart. These sessions are more than just a collection of images; they are a visual narrative of love, commitment, and the anticipation of a shared future.
In my engagement portrait sessions, I strive to offer more than just stunning images. These moments provide a chance to celebrate the bond between two people as they prepare to embark on a life together.
It's crucial to not only look your best but also to capture the essence of your relationship, reflecting the depth of your connection and the excitement for the life you're about to build together.
Your
emotional
state
matters
Welcome to your guide, tailored for your engagement photo session! Here, you'll find everything you need to prepare for this special shoot. I've laid out all the details, guiding you through each step seamlessly. My aim? To ensure you're completely ready for this memorable experience.
We're not just talking about choosing the perfect outfit; there's something even more important: your emotions and comfort. Trust me, feeling relaxed and at ease is key to capturing the essence of your relationship in the photos.
So take a moment with your partner, find a comfortable spot, and spend about 10-15 minutes going through this guide together. It's an excellent way to connect and prepare for the session. Your future selves will surely be grateful for these beautiful memories!
Treat Yo’ Self
Gear up for those stunning engagement close-ups! Attention to detail is key, so make sure your hair looks perfect, your outfits are impeccable, and if you're into accessories like shoes, necklaces, or watches, let them shine as well.
Here's a thought: why not indulge in a bit of pampering and make a day of it?
Whether it's getting your hair styled, nails done, enjoying a relaxing spa session, or simply spending quality time with your partner, I fully support it. My suggestion? Keep it stress-free. Plan a day that combines fun and relaxation both before and after your photoshoot – you both deserve it as you celebrate this special time in your life!
Imagine for a moment that we're about to create a masterpiece. The canvas is ready, it's already a work of art, and now it's time to add you to the picture.
What are we going to have you wearing? Let's find out...
YOUR
clothing
is
IMPORTANT
Okay, let's get into the essential details for your engagement shoot. This is the crucial part of the guide – the elements that truly make a difference. We all dream of those breathtaking engagement photos, but achieving that effortless look takes some thought. Your outfit choice needs to reflect the significance of this occasion.
Here's the deal: your attire can significantly elevate or detract from your portraits.
Consider your outfit as the brushstrokes on a masterpiece. High-quality choices will make your photos shine; less thoughtful selections might not do justice to this significant moment in your lives…
Be You
Our ultimate goal is for you to look at these engagement photos and truly see yourselves – to capture images that are authentic and genuine. A significant part of achieving this authenticity is by choosing outfits that are unmistakably "you"!
Now, let's be real, I'm here to offer up some guidelines and wardrobe wisdom tailored for photography. So, you know, sweatpants and hoodies aren't exactly what we're aiming for. 😉 But take all this advice and blend it with what you already know suits you, boosts your confidence, and lets you two be at ease.
So, without further delay, here are my creative tips for your engagement photo session...
WHAT do you
ALREADY HAVE?
First up, let's explore what's already in your wardrobe – take a good look at your existing clothes! There's no need to immediately think, "I must buy an entirely new outfit that's totally different from my usual style!" Of course, if you're excited about getting something new and special for the engagement shoot, that's great too. Just keep in mind, whatever you choose should resonate with your personal style and match you two as a couple.
If you're thinking about something new, try wearing it a few times before the photoshoot to get comfortable in it.
Here's what's important: consider how you feel in an outfit during social gatherings or when you admire yourself in the mirror. This applies to your old favorites as well – if it doesn't make you feel confident and comfortable together, it might be worth a second thought. Your attire for the shoot should mirror who you are and the love you two share!
MOVEMENT
Here's a key point: your outfit should allow you to move freely and comfortably. And what's even better? If the outfit itself adds a sense of dynamism and fluidity, particularly for the ladies.
Envision attire that's airy, light, and playful, with a hint of texture and softness. Aim for something that feels effortless and flows naturally, mirroring the ease and fluidity of your relationship!
TIMELESS
When searching for those perfect outfits for your engagement photos, consider its timeless appeal. This is where "The Rule of 5" comes into play: if you believe that you would have loved the outfit five years ago and can still see yourself wearing it with pride in another five years, then you've found a winning choice!
This approach ensures your photos remain classic and enduring, reflecting a style that transcends fleeting trends and truly represents you both.
ALL YOU
When selecting your outfit for the engagement shoot, it's essential to choose something that unmistakably reflects your personality and style. It could be a long-time favorite that's been a staple in your wardrobe or a recent find that instantly felt like you. The key is to wear something that resonates with your individuality and the unique bond you share with your partner.
Here’s what to AVOID
"When choosing your attire, avoid overly formal or crisp outfits that might feel restrictive. We're aiming for a comfortable, relaxed vibe, perfect for enjoying and capturing happy moments – stiff business wear might not be ideal, especially if we're in a natural setting.
Branded clothing is okay, but it's better to opt for smaller logos or text (think less than a quarter of the garment's area). Or, fully embrace a brand if it genuinely represents a part of your story as a couple.
A word of caution about patterns and colors: unless you're adept at harmonizing trendy patterns or bold, neon colors with your complexion, it might be best to steer clear. Bright hues like yellow, pink, green, and even bright reds can cast unflattering reflections on your skin during the shoot.
NOTE: If you're a fan of sportswear or gym attire, feel free to incorporate it, but only if you're confident you'll still appreciate those photos in the years to come.
Let’s talk about color…
…in nature.
When it comes to choosing colors, I'm all about neutrals and earthy tones that seamlessly blend with the natural surroundings we'll be shooting in. The idea is to avoid vivid, artificial shades that clash with the environment. These overly bright or intense colors can really stick out like a sore thumb and disrupt the harmony of the final photo.
Here's the thing about nature: you want to catch the eye without looking completely out of place. It's a balance.
Now, don't get me wrong, a pop or two of color can be a great touch when combined with neutrals. The trick is not to go overboard – if you're going for a splash of color, let it shine without overwhelming it with additional hues.
For your reference, I've put together a list of recommended neutrals and colors that could work wonders.
Let’s talk about color…
…in the city
When it's an urban or industrial setting, opt for neutrals that feel like they belong in the cityscape. These colors mesh well with the surroundings. While you can play with bold hues more freely than in a natural setting, be mindful not to overshadow yourself.
Here is the trick: Choose one standout piece and let the rest complement it and your vibe.
Remember, why you picked this urban backdrop and how it defines you is key.
And here's the cool part: if natural setting colors work for you, they'll likely work in urban scenes too. It's all about that connection between you and the environment.
Outfit ideas for
Natural Settings
For clothing, think flowy dresses, oversized sweaters, jumpsuits, rompers. You've got options like denim with tees, crop tops, tanks, or layer up with a statement jacket or winter overcoat. Top it off with wide-brim felt hats, henleys, soft button-up shirts, textured sweaters, flannels, and khakis or chinos. And of course, classic jeans are always a win.
Cosmetics & Footwear
When it comes to footwear, leather or suede boots, timeless sneakers, leather sandals, or even going barefoot work well. Keep jewelry minimal.
As for makeup, let it match the scene's vibe.
And remember, hair should have that natural movement – best to wear it down for that effortless look!
Outfit ideas for
Urban Settings
In an urban setting, embrace the cool vibe with pieces like torn denim, band shirts, crop tops, flannels tied around your waist, hats, and coats (if it's chilly). Feel free to rock jeans, slacks, or even overalls – a lot of what works in nature transitions well here too. Opt for classic button-up shirts and sports jackets for a polished touch.
Cosmetics & Footwear
When it comes to footwear, you've got options: thicker boots, sandals, athletic sneakers, dress shoes, loafers, or heels – choose what speaks to your style. Your hair can go bold and stand out or keep it natural and flowing. Feel free to accessorize with jewelry, just avoid anything super reflective that might steal the spotlight from you.
LOCATION & Season
When considering your clothing choices for the shoot, keep the location and season in mind!
Location often sets the tone with its colors, textures, and vibe. Picture the location like a painted canvas, and your task is to blend in seamlessly. What you wear should complement the backdrop, enhancing the overall harmony.
Season matters too.
In the Midwest, winter lacks color and light, so you'll want outfits with bold textures and colors that make your photos pop against the muted backdrop.
Summer offers a different opportunity – the abundance of light and vibrant colors means you could even rock all whites or neutrals and let the surroundings shine.
I get it, this part leans on creativity, and I'm here to assist you in nailing it. Your outfit should tell a story that aligns with the scene and the season so let me know if you need help!
Final Notes
Bring Options
Always bring more than you think you need. It is better to change only once or twice and leave a few outfits in the car than realize you really wanted to wear another outfit and left it at home! Options are always a good thing.
Keep in touch.
It helps me tremendously when you keep in informed about what you are planning to wear!
Check out Pinterest
Yes, even you, guys, pinterest can be a huge help in finding inspiration!
Don't. Stress... Seriously.
In the end these portraits are going to reflect you no matter what happens and we are going to have a great shoot! Don’t. Stress!
Still have Questions?
Whether you have questions about wardrobe, locations, or whether or not I would be willing to… (hint: the answer is almost always YES) please let me know!